I’ve been stood up for the Nth time in a row. Boy, when do I learn ? “Il buon giorno si vede dal mattino” = “Can tell a day from the morning”. That’s what my mother once told me about a girls. Actually that’s what she said that my grandmother told her (it’s an Italian say). It’s not so much about being stood up, it’s about one taking advantage of one other’s availability.
Samui, much like in English, can be used about a person. Somehow, most of the Japanese girls that either me or my friends have met, seem to be rather cold !
Could it be that most of the the girls we meet can speak English ? A different breed, they will like you if you look foreigner, not like you if you like Japanese, and generally act like complete asses. But then again, even some girls that don’t speak English, aren’t much different.
Busy city, busy life. I understand that, but the heart ? Not there at all ?? No passion, no nothing. Some people equate me to Mr.Spock, as sometimes I exceed with logic.. but at times everyone needs somewhat of a warm feeling !
I’ve slept with Japanese girls (just slept), and felt like I was in a simulator. Zero passion.. other than that created by very artificial situations such as answering to a phone email message a couple of days later (it’s all mostly done by messages). Another thing they like is to flirt with the friend of day ! Wow, I’m suddenly wanted by my friend’s companion.. how cheap is that ? I remember one girl, involved with my friend, asking me out for dinner. She apparently read the Japanese version of the American book “The Rules”, a book that tells women to let the man linger (”wait for him to call you”, etc). That same girl eventually flirted with another friend of mine, as I didn’t give in. What a woman !! I’m so impressed !!

As far as passion goes, it’s a bit like being 10 years into a marriage, only that you don’t need to wait 10 years, nor to get married.
Exotic women ? Yeah, I’ll tell you ! Sure, one can find some cheap women everywhere. But the actual thing.. not seen here.
Tears, they can do that. In Japan even men cry rather easily on TV shows. A girl can cry for you being slightly upset and the next day she’ll accept $400 dollars worth of a bag ! (No, that wasn’t me.. you know who you are ;).

What’s the logic behind ?! For what I know, Tokyo is such a big city, you see so many people everyday, everyone has to adapt to the fact that he or she will see several attractive people every day (on the subway for example). So many faces to ignore, one more, one less. Who’s your friend ? It’s the famous people !! Those on TV !!
Are you famous ? Nope ? Bhaaaaa…

Once a (rather crazy) girl that I knew, insisted for me to take the train with her to take her home. Once in the train she said: “now that you’ll know where I live, I hope that you are not going to stalk on me” …..not in you fucking dreams !!! “I’m so scared, look at these missed calls (some psycho is on me)”.. yeah yeah.. go find yourself another prototype for a psycho, I have too many important things to do in my life other than trying to call a piece of meat+makeup that must be married by the age of 26.

I wasn’t born to do humble jobs. I’ll never do any humble job, unless it’s for somebody I care. Seeking women is a humble job. A job that takes more time than it’s worth. Do I need to be a Japanese TV star before I can get girls to seek me ? I’ll wait for that. In the meantime I have so many intelligent things to do. Actually I just hope that I’ll never be so famous.. because I want to be intelligent, spend time on important things, rather than playing the mating game. Intelligence seems to be something that is getting more and more hard to find nowadays. Or perhaps was never within the grasp of the mass.

I hope I’m an exception, I think I am, I just want to be outside the spectre of all those statistics that associate people. I want to be unique, even if that means that 99% of women won’t like me.

Welcome to my world !

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