Comments on: Sblog it out !

by: Il cavaliere mascherato

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

I think that once we tried to gather some information and find a close formula about “look/eyes/meet/drink/…” and we found that it possible to make a reasonable guess (therefore we could train our neural network) in case of models or “Shibuyans”.
In this case it will be possible to extract some rational information and some typical pattern.
Good looking, white smile, brilliant talk, luminous career for the former, blond hair, dark skin, sunglasses for the latter.
Since unfortunately I am out of these types (even if my previous girlfriend asked me to became blond with long hair), I would rather recommend to leave the NN in a corner for a moment and go straight to a beautiful Montecarlo simulation, perhaps with some variance reduction.
Or, even better, we just try random as usual (”alla carlona”) and see what happen. Sometimes God could bless us… ;)

by: Aphrodite

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Bottom line going to the clubs or
clubbing is just for fun and to relax. And in other words, a meat market too.People are just playing games and pretending somebody else.
And if that’s what your intention then you’re in the right place.
And it’s true that meeting a lot of men/women can be really fun, exiting and challenging to others. But for someone who wants to have a relationship and looking for his/her soul mate then I must say you’re definitely in a wrong place.
Your chance is very low. And the truth is you can meet as many women/men as you want but there’s no guarantee that person is your soul mate. It’s really about good luck and I must say destiny.
Listen to me guys and bear this in your mind because it works.
“Try to be with someone you love to talk to. Because as you get older, your conversational skills will be as important as any other.
And try to avoid long engagement because it’s bullshit.

by: Davide Pasca

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

To build a neural network is not difficult. The problem is to select the right parameters and to train it ...with tons of samples 8)
Especially how do you sample a Shibuyan ? There are a lot of details that we ignore. To try to understand a person one has to at least have had similar experiences.
For example, Japanese spend a lot of time recreating in izakaya(s) (Japanese-style pubs). While we jump straight into Roppongi... and even in Roppongi we get "scared" when the environment isn't particularly suitable to us foreigners. With the result of recursively downgrading to sub-environments (downstairs at Vanilla 8) or different clubs (The Mmmmmmmmm !) where we feel more at ease.
I don't think that that's the answer, because it puts us in a place where we aren't stimulated to outgrow our ignorance.
Yesterday night, this ignorance had a toll on me, as I've been intimidated by the classical mediator trick. A Japanese guy that acting friendly with you and the girl of interest, as of appear at ease and give you the impression that he is somewhat already related to her. Not sure if it's something they do consciously to push you away or if it's just their attitude.. however, it's always a sad day when one is fooled by the oldest trick in the salaryman's book !

by: Davide Pasca

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Il cavaliere mascherato:
Sometimes God could bless us... ;)

..righttt.. chiamami Amaranta y dammi del tu !

by: Davide Pasca

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Spell checking sucks.. makes me feel too comfortable with what I write, thus indirectly increasing the number of mistakes with grammar !!!

by: Aphrodite

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Stop being self-conscious!! You’re doing fine.

by: ragin' lion

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Mr. Kaz, let’s inject some Vulcan logic in here:

There’s no “formula” … and if there is it’s way too complex. If you can build a neural network for it, you’re going to need the assistance of a Japanese lady to build it simply because:

1.) When they see you, you’re gaijin, they will react to you differently compared to an actual Japanese guy.
2.) Naturally, the ladies are “comparing notes” as to how to deal with gaijins … so to an extent, it’s a game for some of them and they are way ahead of you and probably are anticipating your behavior.

But anyways, human behavior while observable is very complex and varies from person to person, and from culture to culture … If one really wants to understand people, one has to deal with them on a per individual basis. Yeah, that’s definately a lot harder, but that’s really the only way.

Didn’t realize the plates were shifting in Tokyo. Glad everything’s still intact. 8P

by: Aphrodite

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Ahhh….what so special about Japanese women?? Can somebody tell me??? I’m sorry but this getting way too annoying. The truth is any women of any race can be attractive!! True or FAlse? Is this some kind of obsession??? And also there are lots of non-Japanese women in Tokyo. You guys tell me. I’m curios now.

by: Davide Pasca

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Ahh nice.. another stupid female comment. Maybe I should ban women from posting here altogether.

Nobody said that Japanese women are better. I’m reporting what happens here in Tokyo.. and guess what.. most women here are Japanese !!
It’s not true that there are lots of non-Japanese women ..if you don’t consider those that work in the field of “entertainment”.

Stop this lame obsession/jealousy !
If you need moral support, go to some other site.

by: Aphrodite

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

L O L
I'm just asking Mr. Kaz.
What's wrong with that??
Please don't ban me 8)
Besides, you're being CUTE!!
Keep your coolness.

Take this big kiss from me 8)
LOL