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March 5th, 2006

Real men !

Today I saw something that I must comment about. There were no special effects in it.. but it surely did stun me !
A guy I know dumped a girl on their first date. Even though I had a “few” drinks, I noticed the situation and went to the girl. He was obviously pushing for her to “get it on”. She seemed like a nice person and perhaps not quite ready for it.
He left her behind without telling her anything. I told her that he left. She went outside thinking that maybe he was waiting for her. I went outside and I saw her alone, so I helped her to get a taxi so that she could safely get home.
That was sad. A man going on a date and not making sure that his date got home safely. Dumping a woman like that. Whatever the reason, a real man should know better.
I don’t believe that men should act strong with women. It’s too easy to be strong with weaker people (women are usually more fragile). Of course, if you act strong, you are less likely to get hurt.. but who gives a crap ?! I don’t care to get hurt, what’s a heartache ? A fictional issue !
..bullshit ! Be a man !!

Posted by Davide Pasca in Society

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6 Responses to “Real men !”

  1. Ragin' Lion says:

    Interesting … I hope you are aware that there are women out there who (if you don’t “dump” them like that) will consider you to not be a “real man”; they’d think you’re “too nice” or “weak” and will eventually just “want to be friends”.

    I definitely agree with you and I think you did the right thing helping the lady get home safely.

    It’s just really sad to see how a lot of us don’t really have our priorities clear when it comes to how we treat each other. All this nonsense going on in the dating scene with people faking that they’re stronger than they actually are and people spending way too much time focusing on the things that aren’t really important.

    Hopefully that gal will clue in to the fact a “real man” wouldn’t treat her like your friend did on that first date and not bother with your friend any more.

  2. Davide Pasca says:

    I think that, as usual, the truth is in the middle. My friend is actually a nice guy. One can say that nobody is perfect, I don’t agree with all that he does, but he’s fundamentally a nice person. I don’t know him well, but he does have some moral values.
    In that specific case, he maybe have gotten hurt by something she said, and he was in a hurry. But even then, he should have had the patience to accommodate her.
    Basically, it’s not my business, everyone says that. But I don’t believe in doing my own business. ..though I realize that telling people around what they should do can be pretty irritating and even counterproductive.
    I’m not sure how I would handle it is someone had to say something about how I behave.. but then again, I usually try to behave in a way that makes nobody upset (other than myself 8).

  3. Ragin' lion says:

    Hey! Mind your own business!!! 8P

  4. rince says:

    I blame the train schedule!

  5. Davide Pasca says:

    rince
    You have something there… the guy left claiming that he had to catch the last train 8)

  6. rince says:

    I am positive now that those trains are at the bottom of every problem in Japan!! FT!!!

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