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April 17th, 2005

Friday and Saturday

Past 6AM, Sunday morning already. Back from a club. Had my food, going to have water every time I wake up for it.
On Friday I sort of organized a meeting with a girl I met a couple of weeks before. I wanted to meet her again. As the ritual suggests. She mentioned about bringing her friends, I agreed by saying I’d bring my friends. So It became a gokon: a meeting of and equal number of men and women.. which came out right, although any of the sides didn’t quite know which number of people the other side would bring.
At the gokon I eventually got the famous question: why don’t you have a girlfriend.. then: what’s your type. And, after I showed a photo of Aibo: you should really get a girlfriend !!! Thanks !!!
Saturday, I went out with a friend, again clubbing. One place, then next place, eventually some connections were made. There, something funny happened: a girl honestly told her friend that I looked too much like a good guy. She kept saying that. I tried to explain to her that I might have some dark sides, but she insisted that I’m a good boy, that “I look like a student”. She even laughed at it.. as to say “get out of here, you good boy !!”.
Looks does matter, but one’s static look doesn’t really make much difference. Looks means also behavior. That is hard to fake.. and it’s funny how one girl can spot you so quickly.
Right.. I may be a good guy, but no one is really 100% good. Watch out !

Posted by Davide Pasca in Uncategorized

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5 Responses to “Friday and Saturday”

  1. ragin' lion says:

    Oh man Mr. Kaz … I wouldn’t even bother with that gal. From her words, it does not sound like she’s looking for a person who would treat her well. “I want a bad man since good men/boys are so boring!” Ha ha ha … They’re plenty of those around for her! (^-^)

    It’s a shame you got judged like that without even being given a chance. If I were you, I’d stop wasting your valuable time with these loser-women! 8P

  2. Elektra says:

    Well, it could be two things, either you’re really not her type
    and she’s just trying to be honest in a nice way which is better rather than playing stupid mind games or she’s being judgmental person. Who knows?? And maybe she
    does like rough sex but since you look like “a really nice guy “(like what you said)she couldn’t picture you doing it. Hey excuse me I just to make a point. I’m not trying to be nasty at all.
    I care about Kaz! I guess you just have to move on and find a woman who will accept and appreciate you for who you are.
    Now a days, it’s really hard to find a nice and genuine man so
    if I was that woman, she should have just friends with you and know you first and then go from there. I don’t know if you would agree on that. And I don’t know how much you like that girl but the best is just look for another a new one. That’s all!!

  3. Davide Pasca says:

    Right.. I didn’t mean to make a big deal of that. Also, I wasn’t really trying to impress her. I approached just to help a friend socializing with her friend 8P
    Anyhow, I think that in general it’s not to difficult to understand the type of person. It’s hard to pretend to be somebody else when you don’t even want to pretend.
    However, some pretending may be necessary. We all wear a mask in a way or another. Women put on clever makeup at cute dresses, men pump themselves at the gym, get suntans, and do crazy things with their hair.. just like some birds do with their feathers when they are trying to mate. Can’t avoid some pretending, it’s in our nature. Unless we want to become completely logic, but then it’s not fun anymore.

    Back to the girl, I think she just spoke her mind. I appreciate that, also was with a friendly tone. She didn’t push me away. Just, in that instance, the difference between me and my friend was striking ! ..I guess.

  4. Davide Pasca says:

    I almost forgot… she asked me if I had a girlfriend. I said “no”, and she replied: “I thought so !”.
    Now, that was low.. !!
    eheheh
    The important thing is that I get to socialize in Japanese.. it’s really helping with the language.

  5. ragin' lion says:

    well, maybe she’s not so bad. maybe as time goes on, she’ll realize that you’re “not like the rest”. I guess some women assume if one is busy working with technology and not out doing “normal” things then one is a geek or something.

    I can’t begin to tell you how many times some ladies were surprised when they found out that I’m a lot more well rounded of a person than their initial impression was of me.

    I guess it’s my “fault” in that I’m not spending enough time trying to impress them … 8P

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