Comments on: A day on the field

by: Rasty

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Why does this blog entry look an awful lot like this letter? http://www.rasty.com/images/t/foundletter.jpg

;)

by: Davide Pasca

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

You mean hypocritical ?
eheh.. one thing is sure.. I wouldn’t ever want to feel anyone inside of me !!!

by: Rasty

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Haha not hypocrital, just similar in content!

Anyway why don’t you want to feel anyone inside of you? You changed habits since you moved to Japan? :)

by: Rince

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Simple logic applies here.

Women that go to clubs to be picked up can not be very clever.

Davide's only point of contact with women is in the clubs.

Davide doesnt like stupid women.

Davide is not happy with the women he meets.

by: ragin' lion

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Wow … Sounds like diary of a man alone on an island:

Day 1:
No fresh water to drink. Had to drink rain water from the palm leaves. Will search for meat tomorrow.

Day 2:
The wild boar I found almost gored me to death. Fortunately I was able to trap it. Now to figure out how to make fire.

Day 3:
Couldn’t make fire from yesterday. Need fresh water. Drinking boar’s blood from yesterday wasn’t a wise move …

But honestly Mr. Kaz, I can relate.

If you really want to get one of those club ladies number or to call you, chat them up, find out their interests, but don’t ask for their number … and don’t give them yours. The one’s who are interested will generally find some suttle way to give you their number. It’s not a game that’s being played, in that “scene” the “market” generally favors the women; they can be free to be picky.

But then that begs the question: Are these the types of women you’re really looking for? Time is a valuable commodity these days. It’s better to “waste” it on more decent ladies.

You should probably change your “field location” … Though those smarter ladies are a bit harder to catch, they’re worth it.

I have to agree with rince man … Two africans in agreement can never be wrong. 8P

by: Davide Pasca

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Ehhhhh… today we had a small party here in my apt. Strange situation. The girl I first saw in the club, and I think she liked me, was associated with the guy that talked to her Sunday. The girl that I talked to in the club was not available. Probaly avoids me because she’s quite taller than me. Also she seemed quite reserved, and she had a decent-girl given name (which explains her eventual carefulness on properness.. for example about stature).
At any rate.. it was fun. Do I want a serious, marriage-oriented woman ? That sounds nice, but it doesn’t quite seem to please me. It’s fun to have fun.. although I’m still quite the reserved person around. I didn’t grab any chance tonight, although I had I probably had a sure shot.
I want what I like and I settle for nothing less.
There is still a lot to understand.. especially understand as in “appreciate”. Even the people that I despise often have something to teach me. To think that I should avoid some people straight away is a dangerous assumption. Every path you avoid is something you won’t be able to understand.

by: Anonymous

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

I can also say that throughout my whole life I never picked up a woman in a club or a bar. And I am not planning on changing that.

by: Rasty

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

You just have to be careful that you could end up liking only what you seemly can’t get.. I mean, if you see a girl is not interested in you or is hard to approach for whatever reason, you feel it as something you could not have and get more interested in it, despite of the girl’s actual virtues!

So I’d try to sort out what it is I like and start finding ways to get to it!

But of course talking is easy, I know very well :))

by: Rince

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Ehhhh that anonymous was me!!!

This website is too complex for my simple brain, you have to click on a radio button and then type in a nick…. Too much to do !! =)

by: ragin' lion

Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

ha ha ha! i made the same mistake a while back rince. this thing they call “technology” … too complex for me too!

To think that I should avoid some people straight away is a dangerous assumption. Every path you avoid is something you won’t be able to understand.

Not saying you should avoid such people, just that you have to be aware of “what you write is what you get” … er … i mean “you get what you pay for” 8P … Don’t expect gold from something that’s made of silver.

Also the general impression I get is that some Japanese women out there are just looking for “fun” anyway and the gaijin thing is more of an experience thing just so that they can see/know what it’s like. Of course the same is true for a lot of gaijin guys out there too.

If you want to survive in that scene, I think it’s best not to have any expectations of anyone at all and just take it for what it is. It might be a bit shallow, but that’s what it is effectively anyway. Once you become serious and expect some of those folks to every now and then have some deep conversation about something, you’re going to run into a brick wall and you’ll find yourself disappointed.