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November 22nd, 2005

電車男 (Densha Otoko = Train Man)

The story goes that one night, a normally wimpy guy, finds the courage to save a girl from being harassed by some old drunk in a train. The same day, the guy reports the fact to a message board. Specifying that he thought that he felt something for her.
A couple of days later, she sends him a present to thank him for having helped her. The guy, again, shares the events on the message board. He’s very timid and insecure. A 23 years old otaku (devoted to manga, anime and videogames, with little or no experience with girls). The girl, instead is slightly older, taller, good looking, mild mannered and from a rich family.
Otaku are most definitely not the ideal target for most Japanese women. As an example, the poster that I have in my room, and that I’ve been told I should get rid of, is something that an otaku would hang.
The place where otaku hang in Tokyo is Akihabara (from here the word akibake). A place where one can find the latest computer parts, but also, events about new anime and games.. some of which explicitly meant for a public of otaku (filled with cute girls !), and also special cafe’s where one is served by cute girls dressed as maids (moeee (from 萌える moeru, a word of recent use around Akihabara to express introverted sense of cuteness (?!)).

Anyway, the story continues with the guy being supported by the people on the message board in trying to find the courage to get involved with the girl, while trying to acquire skills to hide his being otaku.

It’s a love story of modern times, supposedly a real one, which became widely popoular on a famous Japanese message board.
Not long ago the book came out and, recently the TV series and a movie.
I missed the TV series, actually I found out about it only when it was too late, but, luckly a friend gave me a link to where one can find the episodes on the net, even with English subtitles made by fansub groups (really useful as the dialogue at times is really fast paced and it can get quite complex to follow !).
I’m at the 10th episode, of 11 total, plus a special finale, it’s quite good, dramatic but funny, too. I can see why it had so much success.
Well.. doesn’t happen everyday to meet a beautiful girl that one actually feels like feeling something for (they are usually stuckup bitches (products of our society, nevertheless)). The problem with most adult people is not so much that they can’t find someone, but more that they can’t find someone they truly like.. can’t blame people for that, since there is so little passion in everyday life..

The girl in the series is clearly likeable. A somewhat perfect Japanese prototype: very pretty, thin, gentle, introverted, educated (partially raised in LA, a detail used to give her a “from another world” and “English speaking” look, although, normally, a Japanese girl raised in LA would find it hard to be gentle, introverted and thin 8).
The guy, on the other hand, is pretty wimpy, shy to the point that he has to take so much courage just to call a girl up.

The story strikes a chord especially for those otaku-oriented individuals that can put themselves in the shoes of the male protagonist.
While I don’t consider myself an Akihabara-otaku, I can definitely appreciate the point of view of the guy. He finds a girl that likes him for his humane personality, a girl that doesn’t take advantage of him, and, at the same time, he tries his best to try to please her.

This story reminded me that it’s OK to be shy and mild-mannered. One should take pride in that (within the due limits 8).

Time to ZZZZ.. I need to be in shape for tomorrow night.. going to see Armin Van Buuren, wooo !!

moooooooooooo(e)

Posted by Davide Pasca in Society, Japan

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10 Responses to “電車男 (Densha Otoko = Train Man)”

  1. rince says:

    It is all good being shy and introverted, however at the same time on must be logical and realize that progress (good or bad) is triggered by flow of information. Therefore it is important to feed people around you with any relevant information. So as long
    as the shyness and the introversion(sp?) doesnt slow down progress then it is something one can take pride in, otherwise it is
    an inefficiency.

  2. duddie says:

    Seems like Davide San finds a justification for his otaku-like behaviour. And while I am not questioning the way of life one chooses then on the other side I would not accept a nerd like behaviour to be sanctioned as normal way of interaction with society. I am not here accusing author of this blog to be not social… just dumping my two cents :P

  3. Davide Pasca says:

    Clearly, one should not be introverted to the extreme.
    The guy in the story is indeed quite a nerd. Much emphasis is put on how the people on the message board help him to overcome his nerdiness and somewhat renew himself.
    In turn, eventually, those that help him find the strength to solve their own issues (”if he did it, I can do it too !”)
    I’m not sure if one should be nerdy, but it’s true the opposite normally makes for a loser. The outgoing people, those that enjoy very active social life, can’t possibly find the time to think too deeply about things, let alone to get involved in some geeky topics.
    Balance is the answer, but I think it’s better to be geeky than cool. As the civilization evolves, the shift is towards using the brain, rather than behave like an animal thirsty for reproduction.

  4. rince says:

    Define ‘geeky topics’?

    I generally tend to disagree with the geeky vs outgoing personality concepts. I think it is a very simplified model of human
    behaviour that has been forced on us mostly by the western (american ?) culture.

    For example there is no equivalent word to ‘geek’ in the russian language. I remember back in russia, people with good mild manners
    and high education that spent their time deeply researching technical issues or having philosophical discussions were simply called
    “Intelegenti” which sinmply translates to “Intelligents”.

    But here in the west you get these concepts of ‘geeks’, ‘nerds’, ‘winners’, ‘losers’ etc etc…

  5. duddie says:

    Mr Rince, “Inteligenti” do not exclude social life or even implies it as the form of exchanging points of view. “Geeks-nerds” do exclude social interaction as it is based on american model of life… go back home, watch TV, eat popcorn and bucket of ice creams.

  6. Davide Pasca says:

    There is no plain “geek” equivalent in Italian either. The word has a different meaning depends on who uses it on whom.
    I guess that the word geek has indeed an especially strong flavor in the American cultural setting. Japanese have this otaku word, but, generally, the average Japanese is far less socially active than the American dudes and dudettes.. which tend to go wild and independent early in life (college dorms and all that bullshit). So, the negativeness of otaku really is about women not being able to project a good husband and overall family-man on the otaku type.

    As for being winner or loser. To me, a loser is someone that sits on a couch and complains about his/her life. Someone that has had opportunities, or that could actually move his/her ass to looking for other opportunities but, instead, prefers to sit lazily and hoping in some lottery ticket or just complaining, or, in the case of the Americans, suddenly being hit by God’s light (those blessed godfearing people exist in Italy too, but they are very rare).

    Back to the geek word. Recently that has become pretty mainstream. There is a lot of people on slashdot.org eager to define themselves as geek. It seems that this being geek could be the next social circle.. !

    I didn’t necessarily meant to use the word geek. The main point was however that people that make the time to work more on their inner-selves. Those that don’t follow the mainstream tendencies.. eventually tend to feel more satisfied about themselves.

    I’ve met guys that try to exploit their coolness and somewhat good looks as much as they can.. and then come up complaining that they can’t find a job, that things are expensive, etc etc.
    Born dumb, (as everyone does), decided to go continue dumb and, nagging about dumb topics and not much else.

    Stupid humans, that choose to be stupid are what I consider losers.

  7. duddie says:

    TheBalance(TM) is the key :)

  8. rince says:

    Also it would seem that a lot of people are hiding behind this ‘geek’ concept. As mr Duddie correctly pointed out ‘geek’ is
    not equal ‘intelligent’. There are many anti-social, physically unattractive people out there who also happen to be stupid.

    Knowing what slashdot.org is and how to use MIRC doesn’t automatically make a person intelligent!

  9. ragin' lion says:

    How about this idea: Since being a “geek” or “nerd” has seemingly (recently) become fashionable, a lot of people who are posers are adopting this kind of lifestyle to be “cool” or “different”. How about that? 8P

  10. ykpw says:

    What I found interesting in this story is the combination between the real life and the virtual community.
    Though Train Man may not be able to change himself and grab a chance without virtual community’s push and support,
    the basic storyline is amazingly very classic; defending a girl and falling in love.
    http://ykpw.exblog.jp/1575201/

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