Not a productive weekend at all. Somewhat trapped into going out both Friday and Saturday night till late in the morning. Club this, club that. Lots of people, "friends" that secretly try to sneak phone numbers and date girls to which I’m clearly interested in. Au au au ! What some people wouldn’t do over pride. Must have all women, must be number one, me better than you, me model, you ugly, me me me. Not even worth confronting people about it. Better to play cool and slowly withdrawal my contribution to the friendship. Considering that I’m generally more altruistic, I’d say that there is a good chance that the person that decides to hurt the friendship will end up with the biggest loss. There is clearly something wrong when you do your best to boost an egocentric person’s morale and he jumps on a woman around you.
This has happened more than once recently. I can see how one is tempted. To some extent, I’ve also sometimes been struggling trying to accommodate friendship and women. But I think that I generally do a better job. If one really can’t help it, at least being transparent and avoiding girls for which your friend has an active interest in, are two good starting points.
Speaking of girls, here comes the topic of the post: I was in a club and I see two attractive girls in front of me. They were just arrived, both seemed pretty excited. One nervously biting her nails, says: “minna kakkouii !” (they are all cute !).
That’s how normally guys are known to think, but it’s also how younger girls think. It’s only natural. Of course the difference comes to when one has to get closer to someone: will a girl get close to a guy just because he too is cute, or will she use a more appropriate meter ?
I looked at them and I said: “watashi mo ?” (me too ?). “Yes, you too !” ..yeah right !
I asked them if they were looking for something in particular, men, women !
Anyhow it was fun. At least those girls didn’t pretend to be something else. They were straightforward and friendly.
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